NOTE: This is the first in a series of posts for our “Reconciling America?” teaching series, which begins January 10, 2021. To see our weekly teaching videos, click here. For our weekly audio podcast, click here.
“A voice was heard in Ramah,
wailing and loud lamentation,
Rachel weeping for her children;
she refused to be consoled, because they are no more.”
~ Matthew 2:18
A difficult and historic week in America.
Tuesday we learned that officers involved in the shooting of Jacob Blake will not be held accountable. Wednesday, a pro-Trump mob of rioters stormed the U.S. Capitol, incited by Trump himself. Also on Wednesday voters in Georgia have elected their first Black senator alongside their first Jewish senator -- a breathtaking repudiation of the blatantly racist and insurrectionist campaigns conducted by their opponents. White supremacy, systemic racism, and authoritarian nationalism rage right alongside the hope of love.
Lamenting America
President-elect Joe Biden is already pushing for the nation to unify and heal. But genuine healing can’t happen without first giving full expression to the impact of trauma. This is what lamenting is for. A lament is a passionate expression of grief or sorrow, and often takes the form of a prayer or poem, song or liturgy, but is always an outpouring of frustration and grief.
Below are the laments of our congregation and friends.
Scroll down to submit your own lament to be posted here.
Our Laments for America
How to share your lament
Normally we would be lamenting together in our worship gathering. But because we are not gathering in-person, we are inviting you to share your lament for America with us online. In the coming days and weeks, we will be collecting these laments and sharing them online and in our gatherings.
Laments often take on particular forms. Here’s a template that you may find helpful:
Lament is often a way of asking “why” when there are no obvious answers.
Lament often names the hopes and expectations that were dashed.
Lament often name the promises (including from God) that have not been fulfilled.
Lament often vividly describes the pain of grief in tangible ways.
Lament often asks for relief and fulfillment of unfulfilled promises or expectations.
There are three ways you can share your lament in this space:
Share your own written lament to God about what is happening in America: Use the comment form below. Stick to expressions of emotion. What are you feeling? Resist the temptation to rationalize it.
Share a scripture, poem, image, gif., video clip, or song that expresses your lament: Again, use the comment form below, but share a link to whatever media you feel expresses your grief about what is happening in America.
Call and leave a recorded voice message: If you are willing, speaking your lament out-loud can be very powerful and healing expression. To do so, call (760) 722-8522 and leave a voicemail.
You are welcome to share anonymously. Just indicate that you would like your lament to be anonymous and we will exclude your name when we post it here.
Important Note: Whatever emotions of grief you are legitimate. But it isn’t healthy for your or others to direct those emotions toward others in hateful or violent expressions. We will not post any expression of hate speech or violence.